Dating after 50 for men
Nice, successful, decent people who find themselves single over 40.
Bobbi brings up things I would never have thought of.
They’ll text me non-stop for an entire weekend, totally disappear, and then email me ten days later.“Rules Girl” tactics are common: don’t return phone calls or texts for 48 hours, don’t pick up the phone for scheduled phone dates, etc. The disappearing, the game-playing, the crazy expectations, the mixed messages? It protected me from ever giving any man of quality a chance to see me or touch my soul. He told us that he loves women, “if only they weren’t so complicated.” And he graciously gave me permission to publish his email because he wants to help women understand single men over 50, their feelings, what they want and don’t want.
That’s why Step 3 of my 6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him System is Who is He? When you can articulate the grownup feelings you must have to be happy with a man — for instance, you may want to feel safe, understood and adored – then you can use these to measure a man’s potential in a meaningful way.
I recommend that your mantra as you meet men is DISCOVER, DON’T DECIDE.
Period.) How much energy did you expend on this guy?
And how did this bad choice affect your dating experiences going forward?