Dating playing it safe
The results show that those seeking a long term relationship had a better success rate when playing hard to get. Our subconscious is probably telling us that if your prospective partner is willing to put in the hard work, then they are probably in for the long haul.The problem with going down this path is that in all likelihood your love interest will be pulling the same stunt.
A person who is playing hard to get will more than likely have other guys or girls that are interested in them.
If the person you'd like to date is someone you met online, insist that when you meet them in person, you meet them with a group of people, or at least just bring one friend along with you.
Ask lots of questions to be sure that the person you're meeting is who they claimed to be online.
If someone is playing hard to get they will avoid hurting your feelings unnecessarily.
They will call when they are thinking of you and if they say they will meet for coffee then that’s what they will do.